Behind Every Woman Who Fulfills Herself

There used to be a saying: “Behind every successful man stands a woman.”

I believe that today, behind every woman who fulfills herself, stands a brave woman who accepts and understands that her home is not always perfectly tidy the way she would like, and that sometimes the kids eat takeout for lunch.

But alongside all of this, no less important there is the anchor of partnership and shared life. To cheer, to support, to give space. Not only to be there in difficult moments, as we tend to automatically think but to stand by your partner when they want to bring their dreams to life. And it’s not easy: there are costs, sacrifices, fears, and a mix of emotions that come along with those dreams.

I am grateful every day that I have a partner who supports and encourages me. I have always loved to dream at night and, if possible, make it real the next morning 😊.And if you are reading this and you are still not in a relationship by choice, or you haven’t yet found your person, or maybe you are looking at your partner right now and feeling frustrated – let me share a secret: we are in our “Chapter B.” I fulfilled dreams and became independent even before him, when I was the sole provider, carrying the main responsibility, without a partner to share or consult with.

And if you want just start. Choose small actions and make it happen. It doesn’t have to be a drastic change or “breaking all the rules” it can be in addition to, or alongside, what already exists.

I truly believe that when we choose to follow our hearts, with desire and faith the angels show up along the way.

And as the famous song says: “Better a glorious failure than dreams left in a drawer.”

Wishing you always choose yourself and your dreams.

With love,

Reut Harel